A Detroit Ford dealer - Mel Farr Ford - did this years ago. Got sued and the dealership lost.
What if they disable the car when you are parked in a sketch area? It's a safety issue. That's part of the reason they lost.
A couple months after buying a new DH, it will also have 2,400 miles on it. And none of the upgrades you've already paid for.
What are your reasons for going through the cost and hassle of swapping?
The only dealerships that do this to shut the vehicle down if you don't pay are typically used car dealerships providing their own financing to sell vastly overpriced, high mileage cars to those with poor credit.
Did you contact them and ask them WTF? Whatever you do, do NOT give them the...
Personally, I would spend my money on fuel and seat time before buying and bolting on cast-off crap from other owners. Change for the sake of change is typically not a good idea.
You and I may belong there, but our 2024 automobiles don't. Did you ask them to replace the power windows with cranks and the disc brakes for drum brakes? :)
Doing a full four wheel alignment is NOT part of PDI. If they do that for you at no cost, then you have an outstanding dealer. Generally, dealerships don't do work for free.
You won't always find what you want, when you want it, right around the corner. Sometimes you have to travel for the best deal. Last year, I drove from Michigan to West Virginia and back to buy a SXS that I wanted, but was in short supply around here. That's not the first time I've done it...
That's an easy one. If you don't want to buy a FORScan compatible dongle, maybe someone who lives near you would be willing to do it for a barley pop or two.